... about 9-10 months ago. I have been in pain for the last two years, but didnt wanna sound like a Baby to my Dr. Finally went in and this is what they said I had. I have been on Tramadol, Cymbalta, Gabapentin, Cyclobenziprein. Sorry for the spelling, but you get it. Nothing has really worked. My doctor keeps telling me hang in there, ya well It's getting old and I need here to do something. I'm a pretty tough girl and I can't even hold back the tears it hurt's so bad. Im always craby, can't sleep and I am missing way to much work. What works for you? How do I get through to my doctor? Im a mom of two kids and can't really do much with them because of the pain... HELP
Fibromyalgia - HELP... Im in so much pain I just can't take it anymore. I was diagnosed with Fibro.?
Question posted by em4582 on 18 Feb 2011
Last updated on 29 September 2022
Well thank got my doc is sending me to a pain management. Well is that a good thing or what do they do? Sorry I'm so new to thhis.... it worry me it took a long time for a lot of you to find stuff that works? Also I am very into yoga and my doc says it should really help well if that's true why hasn't it helped? It's almost as if she thinks I'm lying...ugh
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I feel your pain. Just wanted to say I've nearly tried every drug out there and have been in pain for nearly 20 years. It only got to a truly unbearable point after the birth or my first daughter. Finally after my second daughter was born have I been able to find some professionals that understand the muscloskeletal system and I have been told that I am very bendy and that my ligaments are too loose so my muscles tighten up to keep my joints in place. Apparently, this is even more common after childbirth. To make a long story short I am doing Prolotherapy now with some success. Please look into it. I had to get referred by my physiotherapist and where I live there is a wait of course to get in as the demand is high. I am nearly have done now and starting to get on top of the pain and feel more human again. Feel free to ask me about it. It is so frustrating to just exist and be in pain. The Dr that I go to also do treatments like Faucett blocks (pain blocks) etc. I don't know much about that but was just told that I need Prolotherapy. Be well and be hopeful.
Hi: I have had joint, tendon and muscle pain in the past. I have
also had chronic neck and shoulder pain for over 30 years--which
NOTHING helped. Then, a doctor gave me SOMA (the generic version), and it really worked!! I only take it at night, before bed, and only 1 tablet. I have been on the same dose since 2006 and haven't had to up it. When I DO get excessive pain, I will break a tablet in half and take it in the late afternoon, IF I don't have to drive anywhere. It doesn't make me 'goofy', but I try not to take any chances with meds--- if they say to be careful about operating vehicles when on them.
Soma is relatively cheap--it has been around for a long time, I think.
***NOTE: some doctors will hit the roof when you ask for it--trying to tell you that it is a dangerous drug, BUT, as long as you do not have an addictive personality, you should not have problems with it--just check it against your other meds first. I asked a very good pain management doc that I met recently what HE thought of it. He said it was a GREAT drug, and he can't understand why so many docs won't prescribe it!
There is also a procedure called Prolotherapy that might help you. If you want info on it, please send me a note and I will get back to you.
Good Luck!
I agree. Soma is especially good for sleep. I find it funny the same doctors who don't want to prescribe soma have no problem handing out tramadol like candy. Neither are "addictive" or "narcotic". Well, unfortunately, tramadol can be highly addictive, especially when taken far above prescribed dosing, which alot of people do since it is very ineffective at normal dosing. Both can be taken safely. And both CAN be addictive when abused. Both can cause psychological addiction far easier than physical addiction, but that can be avoided too when the drug is only taken as prescribed and when absolutely needed. I took tramadol for over three years, and coming off of it cold turkey, which my idiot doctor said would be fine, caused worse withdrawal symptoms BY FAR than when I stopped taking vicodin cold turkey! I have never been on soma long term, but I can tell you that for the short time I did take it, I never slept better in my life:)
Dear Preprosgirl:
Thanks for the validation concerning SOMA--it really was a lifesaver for me, as far as sleep was concerned. Too bad more people don't know about it!
Mad Hatter
OOPS! Sorry about getting your 'name' wrong... :(
It's ok:) You're very welcome!
my pm just told me they won't give soma's no more cause the are highly addictive !they were a wonder drug for my fibro !they gave me something else but i miss my soma's !if taken right i don't believe you will get addicted !but thanks be to God they let me keep the ultrams which are also addictive !but i have come to realize that ultrams help with my arthiritis pain and stiffness !even my pm told me it helped !
I have been taking 1 Soma a night for years! I'm prescribed 3 a day, but unless I'm having severe muscle spasms I only take the one at night!
brenda fain, I just noticed where your doctor will not prescribe soma. I just got a new script with refills. Move to Alabama with me! Joking, but I would have to have a serious talk with my doctor, I've tried every muscle relaxer on the market over the ears and it is the only thing that helps me. Flexerill make me were I couldn't swallow! I've had esophagus surgery ad problems all my life and had to find a balance that would work.
Why are they taking all the good medicine off the market, or changing them where they don't work as well? I hope they don't take Soma away! Best of luck finding a new one that helps you. Niki
Depends on where u live, soma is very addicting and some places, they will not give them out. soma is made where vicodin made and is very very addicting.
Good for you ! I am so happy that you are finally going to get some help you desparetly need. Be prepared. Take notes. Write down all your problems, and all of your questions. Be sure to include meds your on & meds you've tried that haven't worked. It makes it a lot easier. Sometiemes we get what's called Fibrofog, & it's hard to remember or do anything. So get ahead of the game & please be prepared. I have to do this with every doc I see. I've have had Fibro for over 30 years Join the Fibromyalgia group if you haven't, & of course the pain group. Sleep is very important with Fibro & (hate to say it) exercise! Just stretching will help. Chiropractors are helpful also. The sleep part you may need a script of Xanax or Trazadone. Might ask about a script for one of them also. REM sleep is so important for Fibro pain cycyle. Good luck to you, & I hope all comes out the best for you. Remember to write things down, & ask all kinds of questions.
I'm finally on a combination that works for me. After YEARS on tramadol and ativan! I feel reborn. I use a once a week patch called Butrans *buprenorphine patch*, which we just increased from 5mcg/an hr to 10mcg/an hr. As well as Naprelan CR, a continued release 500mg version of naproxen. Once a day for that. 12.5 mg Savella twice a day. And I have 7.5/350 Lortab for breakthrough pain. The patch is technically a Schedule III controlled substance, BUT doesn't feel like a narcotic AT ALL... I can function fully and don't feel at all drugged up. This is what works for me. I will pray you can find a good dr and a system that works for you. Best wishes!
do u take bup and loratabs, both? i take bup!!! great for fibro pain!!
Hey em4582:
Sorry it has been so long in getting back to you, I too live with Chronic pain and I live in a state where we got an Ice storm, I caught a fall on top of my original pain, I too have been through many medications, you might ask the doctor if he can prescribe a drug that is long acting such as MS Contin, Fentanyl patches, I was on Dilaudid until I caught the fall and then they finally found a pain medication along with a combination of medications that work together, Pain takes a lot out of you, it affects your ability to eat and sleep and just function through daily living, Try your best to just know that you are not alone, there are many of us here who understand and are willing to help in any way possible, maybe if you focus on making a log of what is happening then the doctor will be better able to see what is going on, I even understand that when you are in pain it takes a lot just to do the little things, My first name is Billy and my site name is Caringsonbj please take care and let us know if we can be of further help
Are you a single mom? If you have one, let your signifigant other take care of the kids for a while, barring that your mom or your sister, till you get right.
If I were you, I would call my doc, and tell him that you can't "hang in there" and I would ask him to admit me to the hospital tonight. If you are not functioning and, more importantly, not sleeping, you need medical attention, it's the weekend so you can't just go see your GP (or whomever) tomorrow.
Sweetlemon is a good one for fibromyalgia questions - she is aces.
em, I also have fibromyalgia & a hundred other conditions of chrontic pain so I hear you loud & clear! My doctor put me on Lyrica as soon as it was approved by the FDA for my Fibromyalgia & WOW what a difference it did make! My problem is I got side effects from it of ankle swelling & face swelling. These are side effects, but not everyone gets them. It might be worth a try. I also am prescribed xanax to help me sleep, & that REM sleep for Fibro patients is important in the pain cycle. I would suggest you see a Rhuematologist for the Fibromyalgia & maybe write down a few suggestions you get on this forum. Tell them what you are getting now, just isn't working. I hope if you try the Lyrica you have prescription coverage as it is expensive. I wish you all the best. I will friend you, & you can send me a private question if you like.
I was diagnosed with Fibro years ago. My doctor tried all kinds of drugs until she hit on Vioxx. When it was taken off the market she switched me to Celebrex. It is a cox-2-inhibitor and usually prescribed for arthritis pain. IT WORKS for me.
I have even found out that I am developing some arthritis and it was only through x-rays as I never felt the pain.
Because I was having a really bad time getting restorative sleep, I purchased a foam topper for my bed. At I first got a 3 inch deep one and it was still not relieving the pressure points, so I bought a 1 inch memory foam to put on top of it. I SLEEP LIKE A BABY NOW! (Friends tell me they love my bed.)
I hope you find relief for your pain because it can make me just want to curl up in the fetal position and bawl.
Yes, A real soft comfortable bed is essential for anyone with Dx of Fibro.. I was Dx with Fibromyalgia 15 years ago but as well as meds, I swim twice a week (something I learned at a pain management seminar), as regular gentle exercise helps to lower pain levels .. I also have Cerebral Palsy so I do know what chronic pain is like.. If you can just keep up your yoga and find a nice soft topper for your bed; reduce your stress and anxiety with better sleep; try to find the right medication and I find a hot bath before bedtime helps to relax my achy muscles.. I'd also recommend seeing a pain specialist as they understand and can offer alternative treatments for acute chronic pain.. Hope this might be helpful?
I have taken all the meds you have heard about so far except for Savella. The only ones that help me at this time are tramadol as needed and cyclopnezaprine at night for the fibro. Due to the many years (DX 17 yrs ago) I also have chronic anxiety which I take alprazolam in very low dose of .25 as needed. For me it works best to be prepared to change every year what I take as I become immune to most things or start having very serious sided effects. I am working with an internist and he has helped me more than any other specialist or PCP... so far so good... as I am actually doing better than I have. Could be I am on SSI and not working, but somedays I think I could even go back to work if someone wanted to hire a 60 yr old with fibro, severe anxiety and arthritis!!!
I was diagnosed with fibro around last May. I agree with the others, if your doctor is telling you to hang in there and you have been on the meds long enough to know whether there helping or not you may want to look for a new one. It is so important that your doctor listens to you. I think others with fibro. will say the same in that you may try many meds til to find the one that brings relief. I have been on Lyrica, cymbalta, Gabapentin, and a few others. Not only did those not work I had side affects. I am now on Savella which I feel is working. I am also on Flexeril and take it at night time along w/Klonopin, Melatonin. I think taking the Flexeril at night helps my muscles relax while sleeping.
I am also a Mother of 2. And it is hard to do what you want to be doing. Accepting this condition I feel is even harder. hang in there and keep us posted on how your doing...
Jfamily
i too have fibro and i'm on soma's and ultrams .i am also a chronic pain suffer and just got put on some really strong meds after 3 back surgeries in just a few short weeks !fentanyl patch has help greatly with my chronic pain and also the pain from fibro !it is a guessing game when it comes to meds for fibro cause what might work for you might not work for me ! please keep going to your doctor until you get the relief you deserve ! and no it's not in your head the pain is real!!!
i have been on savella did great for fibro but ran my blood pressure sky high !i also have been on Flexeril and narco's .but pm doctor changed all of my meds after my back surgeries ,she put me on what i was on in the hospital .oxy's 15mg 4 x a day the soma's 3 x a day the ultrams 2 x a day and the patch !can't say that i'm pain free but i'm hurting a lot less!
i hope you and your doctor will find the meds that are right for you ! we all deserve to live as free of pain as possible !you will find a lot of great advise on this site ! people really care and are willing to share their experince with you in hopes that your life may be made a little easier !
God bless
im sorry, i just want to say you r on very addicting drugs- i was too, until one day they took the pain pill away- very hard to come off!!! try subutex because you build a tolorance up subutex works!!!
i'm not on the pain meds for my fibro i have has four back surgeries and about 20 other surgeries that causes me to be in a lot of pain and will be the rest of my life and i know about addiction to meds but i do thank you for your concern!
Brenda - Just want to let you know something that my former Rhummy told me when I lived in another state - here I have a Neurologist instead. She told me that there is a difference between addiction and being dependent on a medication(s) for a better quality of life. I just didn't want for you to get nervous about the "many addictive meds" comment. Where this may be 'true', I'd rather be dependent if it means I have some kind of quality of life..which on my end, I don't have right now. Perhaps after Tuesday when I see my Neurologist (or whatever day this week he gets me in tho he said "early this week") All the best to you and I really hope that you STAY hurting less and hurt even less than that very soon!! God bless!
Hey em4582,
You have gotten some good advice so far, so I can't add much but that my sister has fibro and has had good luck with a combination of medicines including gabapentin and skelaxin (another muscle relaxant). My girlfriend had success with the Savella. Lyrica is an improved formula of the gabapentin, that might work better for you.
Just some thoughts,
Laurie
Is your doctor a rhumy? If not you need to go to one. One that is very up to date on Fibro. As far as the doctor you see if he or she isn't listening you need a new doctor.
I as well suffer from fibro. but also have other conditons that make me in pain dailey.
Have you had blood work to make sure there isn't any thing else going on such as RA, and Lupus ? If not you should do this.
Elivil works well for fibro. Cymbalta didn't help me at all, a different muscle relaxer might work better than the flexeril. Sounds like the meds you are currently on Need to be changed.
Hoping this helps
I was diagnosed by a Rheumatologist and Neurologist in 2009 and besides the horrible wide spread pain and the debilitating chronic fatigue, the thing that depresses me most is the friends, family and majority of Doctors I have seen that think it's all in your head and all you have to do is plow through it all, because you look good. I had one Doctor tell me there is no such thing as Fibromyalgia, I said I agree then you must know what I have then. He just said I need Phychiatric help, I felt much better after that visit. I can't find a Doctor who knows and understands this problem they label Fibromyalgia, so I suffer day in, day out wondering if I can go on living like this, I have no life anymore.
To the person who said fibromyalgia isn’t real, you are wrong! It is very real! I didn’t believe it for years then after a hospitalization I had 3 doctors diagnose me with it. Find a fibromyalgia group or blog that can relate to what you’re going through!
u feel your pain! i was also diagnosed with fibermyalgia - the doctor gave me savella and it does not seem to be working or i just cant tell that much.. i have been on vicodine also and they just changed it to norco. i recently tried a new med called nucynta and it helped - i was given 10 tablets for free but when i went to walgreens to get a new script they wanted $275 for 90 pills and insurance would not cover cuz it is new - that is why they gave me the norco. i cried cuz that nucynta helped me sleep and gave me 3- 4 hours of being pain free.
If a med your doc prescribed is not covered, why didn't your doc call the ins Co. and say that this is what you need. Ask him to. I swear, half my prescribe3d pills are not on my ins Co's formulary, but they pay for all of mine.
I would see a pain management specialist. I have seen one for years and it helps. I let him handle all pain medications. It becomes too much getting meds from different doctors. You might ask the doctor about trigger point injections for the fibro. Also keep checking in with our pcp and make sure they know which medications you are taking. Sometimes less is best. My pcp is working with me to cut my pain level down. I also have IC,IBS and migraines. Recently tried Elavil. I was able to stop a couple other medications. Still working on getting all my pain to cut down but it takes time. Sleep is very important for feeling better so I would try to talk to the doctor about the best ways to get sleep. It is hard for I have battle insomnia for a long time. Just recently with Elavil,Ambien and melantonin I am getting sleep! Some of my pain is getting better but I still need tweaking.
Make sure you research your medications for when your on a lot the side effects with so many mixed in can be worse that the fibro. Remember to walk every day even if it just a little because in the long run it is best. Hope I did not say too much and hope I said something that might help.
I feel your pain! I'm 30+ yrs dealing with this! Anyway, a couple of things that helped me shortly after I was diagnosed were cutting out caffiene, except one cup of coffee w/breakfast, I added more fruits, vegetables and fiber to my diet. I cut out all fast food, processed foods, artificial sweeteners and allowed myself one soda a week. I drank a lot of water and I walked everyday in addition to 3 days a week at the gym. One thing you need to be sure about is whether you have fibromyalgia or fibromyalgia and Chronic Myofacial Pain Syndrome. You have to be careful about exercising if you have the combination. I did some longterm damage exercising because we didnt know about CMPS. I went to extremes because their weren't many answers in those days! I can't take sleeping pills because they wire me and anything like Elavil or Cymbalta makes me extremely depressed. What used to work is no longer effective. What works for one doesn't help everyone.
You start with the recommended drugs like Lyrica and Cymbalta and if you're lucky enough to have a caring PCP or PMS who will write pain medication, maybe you will get some relief! This is the best support group I've found and you really need one because most people do not understand this disease and this one is very caring! It also keeps you up to date on treatments that helped someone else so you can share with your doctor. Keep a journal for your next appointment and include every ache and pain, every emotion and feeling that you have. Include what you are doing on your own to improve things! If the PMS (Pain Management Specialist) sees that you are really trying they will be more likely to help you. I really hope that you find a very compassionate PMS who will work closely with you to get you out of pain so you can enjoy your children.
I was diagnosed with fibro in 2001 altho I had symptoms long before that. I felt like a hypocondriac going to the doctor all the time, so I started keeping a very detailed journal; what the weather was like, what I was eating, how the pain was roving in my body,what medication I was taking and whether it worked or not, my stress levels, etc. The dr took one look and told me what I had. There was relief being able to put a name to what I was experiencing and I could take some responsibility for my health by doing research. It took a long time to get my life back. Things were so bad I was suicidal. I just felt like I couldn't take one more moment of pain. I felt tortured and desperately wanted to drop my skin and run. There was all sorts of grief. I couldn't do a lot of things I used to including being spontaneous. The onset of pain and fatigue was unpredictable. It affected every area of my life and impacted on my marriage.
To make a long story short, I went to a wonderful rheumetologist who listened attentively and prescribed me oxycontin. I have been on it for ten years with the dosage now at 40 mg twice a day. I also take gabapentin, baclofen, mirtzapine and amytriptaline for sleeping. I also have percocet for breakthrough pain. It has given me my life back. I have had to make changes in my life; rest when I am tired, setting boundaries, doing things in moderation. I have learned to be grateful for the days that are good and to be present in my body when they aren't. I also have learned to use other healing approaches such as the use of essential oils. A few drops of lavender and camphor essential oil in a hot bath is magic. It takes the soreness and pain down several notches and helps me sleep well. I also use therapuetic touch, meditation and reiki which works with the energetic vibration of my body. i also use linament, heat packs and a 'thumper' a machine that thumps the muscles in my back and shoulders. I also go for regular massages. I give myself permission to cry when I need to and reach out for support when I need a hug.
Hope some of this has been helpful. Sue
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