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Depression In Children


What is depression?

Depression is a medical condition that causes your child to feel sad or hopeless. These feelings do not go away. Depression may cause your child to lose interest in things he or she used to enjoy. These feelings may interfere with his or her daily life. He or she may also be angry, do poorly in school, become isolated, or have pain.

What causes or increases my child's risk for depression?

Depression may be caused by changes in the brain chemicals that affect your child's mood. Your child's risk for depression may be higher if he or she has any of the following:

  • Stressful events such as the death of a loved one, abuse, parental divorce, or loss of a friendship
  • A family history of depression
  • An anxiety disorder, ADHD, or a learning disability
  • Low self-esteem or poor relationships with others
  • A chronic medical condition, such as cancer, asthma, or migraine headaches

What are the signs and symptoms of depression?

  • Appetite changes, or weight gain or loss
  • Trouble going to sleep or staying asleep, or sleeping too much
  • Fatigue or lack of energy
  • Feeling restless, irritable, or withdrawn
  • Feeling worthless, hopeless, discouraged, or guilty
  • Trouble concentrating, remembering things, doing daily tasks, or making decisions
  • Self-harm or talking about suicide

How is depression diagnosed?

Your child's healthcare provider will ask about your child's symptoms and how long he or she has had them. He or she will also ask if there are any family members with depression. Tell your child's healthcare provider about your child's health and any medicines he or she takes. He or she may ask how your child is doing in school. Tell him or her about your child's relationships with teachers and friends, and about any stressful events in his or her life.

How is depression treated?

Your child's healthcare provider will help you and your child develop a plan for his or her treatment. The provider will ask your child to make plans for coping at home, school, and around friends. The plan may include an emergency contact in case he or she feels like hurting himself or herself, or others. It may also include regular exercise, good nutrition, and any of the following:

  • Therapy may be used to treat your child's depression. Therapy can also help your child work through situations that may be causing the depression or making it worse. This may be done alone or in a group. It may also be done with family members.
  • Antidepressant medicine may be given, depending on your child's age. Your child may need to take this medicine for several weeks before he or she begins to feel better. Tell his or her healthcare provider about any problems your child has with his or her medicine. The kind or amount of medicine may have to be changed. Some medicines used to treat depression may increase the risk for suicide.

What can I do to help and support my child?

  • Listen to your child when he or she wants to talk. Your child's depression may be related to something stressful in his or her life. Examples include loss of an important family member, or divorce of his or her parents. Your child may be bullied at school or have trouble making friends. Do not dismiss your child's problem or feelings. You may not think the situation is serious, but it is to your child.
  • Watch your child carefully for any behavior changes. Talk to your child's healthcare provider if you have concerns or questions about your child's behavior. Children with depression have an increased risk for suicide.
  • Encourage healthy eating habits. Offer your child a variety of healthy foods. Healthy foods include fruits, vegetables, whole-grain breads, lean meats, fish, low-fat dairy products, and cooked beans. Limit the amount of sugar and caffeine your child has.
  • Help your child create a sleep schedule. Have your child go to sleep and wake up at the same times every day. Stick to a sleep schedule so he or she gets enough sleep. Your child may sleep better if his or her room is quiet and dark.
  • Help your child get 1 hour of physical activity every day. Encourage your child to play sports or be active every day. Physical activity can reduce symptoms of depression. Try offering to take your child somewhere he or she enjoys. This may help him or her be more willing to be active.

The following resources are available at any time, if needed:

  • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (1-800-273-TALK)
  • Suicide Hotline: 1-800-784-2433 (1-800-SUICIDE)
  • For a list of international numbers:

Call your local emergency number (911 in the US) if:

  • Your child has done something on purpose to hurt himself or herself.
  • Your child tries to commit suicide.
  • Your child says he or she wants to commit suicide.

When should I call my child's therapist or pediatrician?

  • Your child's depression gets worse.
  • You do not think your child's depression medicine is helping.
  • You have questions or concerns about your child's condition or care.

Care Agreement

You have the right to help plan your child's care. Learn about your child's health condition and how it may be treated. Discuss treatment options with your child's healthcare providers to decide what care you want for your child. The above information is an educational aid only. It is not intended as medical advice for individual conditions or treatments. Talk to your doctor, nurse or pharmacist before following any medical regimen to see if it is safe and effective for you.

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