It happen during aggressive sex but me and my girlfriend have a lot of it. I happen to miss my mark so to say and my penis did not penetrate when I thrusted aggressively. So my penis got tucked down and the base of my shaft hit. I did not feel any pain at the moment and didn't even notice anything wrong and continued with our sexual activity. At this particular time were pressed for time so we had to leave quickly, I did not release (not because I felt like I could not but because we had to go). As I was pulling up my pants I immediately noticed a very large half the size of a golf ball bump on the base of my shaft. It didn't not hurt but you could imagine my panic at the time. The bump was very large, did not have any discoloration, and did not have any pain at the time. I was out of town at the time of the nearest ER was about an hour drive away. My house was about 3 hours away. I started driving home in about an hour into the drive the ball went down tremendously but did not go away. Now it was about the size of marble, a bit smaller, and still no pain yet. I made it home and decided to wait it out. The next morning I went to ER. They told me it was a soft tissue contusion and to ice it and take Tylenol for the pain and wait about a week for any sexual activity. About 4 later I received oral stimulation and upon release it was very unenjoyable. My penis got real tight and felt like he was forcing itself to release. That marble like ball on top of the shaft of my penis just looks like a very sore vein. Now this sore, slightly inflated vein cause me pain when ever I get erect and point my shaft down. (No erectile dysfunction). I when to a urging care days later and they told me the same thing and just gave me a prescription for ibuprofen. It's been about a week now and I haven't seen any improvement. I just want to know how long this thing usually takes to heal or anybody has been through the same thing? Any input would be appreciated, thank you!
Penis pain! I have a bruised penis and it hurt. Haven't seen any improvement. What do I do to help?
Question posted by Ohmything on 8 Aug 2016
Last updated on 6 March 2017
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3 Answers
You need to use a creme called Man1 Man Oil. It is made just for penis skin issues like this and treats and prevents a number of issues like soreness, chafing, spots, bumps and a lot of other skin problems. It's safe and easy to use too. Real good stuff. Hope this helps.
Hi Mike...
Just curious if you know whats in it?
Is it a moisturizing feel or more of a medication?
It's just good to be aware of what's all out there.
I see you posted this some
days ago and was wondering have you had any improvements? How is your gf holding up with all of this. I ask because my boyfriend and I were in the same scenario and we didn't have sex for weeks... which sucked,
I seen some improvement in the past couple days. The pain has been decreased a little bit but the vein on the top of my shaft has not really gone down and that was the source of the pain. Mentally were both pretty depressed, it's horrible not being able to get close to my girlfriend. My doctor said I can't even get it erect because it can be re-injured. How are you two holding up? How long have you been waiting.
.your health and your penis are vital aspects to your life so that's great that's you're getting better little by little... and aww I'm sorry to hear that but trust me, its temporary, just be there for her even tho your going thru..my boyfriend was so sad beachside of it, his work and school were drastically effected because of it..we both had to be there for each other, even with the little things... I'm glad to hear you doing well, and best wishes for you and her!!
I'm telling you guys... The only sure way is to say hundreds of miles apart. All for a good reason !
The guys go camping,fishing and hunting. No magazines allowed nor sex stories !
The ladies can go to the Beach and ogle all the cute guys around !
Sometimes being a woman does have its advantages!
Sister is not off the hook yet. It takes two to tangle :)
You were in the happy event so your job will be to control your wild man by guiding his penis in the right direction. Lots of lubricant! Any groaning (that won't be easy) and it's your responsibility to call the whole thing off. Really though... he can deteriorate all over again.
First idea the best... go to the beach and play with their beach balls.
You and your gf need a vacation from each other... Lol
The ER told you not to have sex but 4 hours later you received "oral stimulation".
It's considered sex in this circumstance!
Think of what is happening when your penis gets engorged (from any type of activity).
The blood flow rushes to that area and dilates the blood vessel. The contusion is probably from a small blood vessel rupturing. 4 hours later you essentially did the same thing. You had ice on it to decrease the swelling but re-ruptured it by being engorged.
I would not "use" it until the lump is gone.
If you sprained your ankle you would rest and elevate. You would not say it's ok if I tip-toed around.
Stay away from anything that will antagonize your penis or you will prolong the recovery time... movies,magazines,and especially your gf !
Good luck ... Now you need to practice self-control ! If no improvement in a few weeks you should see your doctor.
If it worsens despite your good intentions, I'd see the doc ASAP.
Btw... I hope you are using birth control. You don't want to add insult to injury !
Be well...
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