I had the Paragard after my first child I liked it other then the fact my periods were awful. So after I have my daughter this march the doctor said I should try the Mirena. I'm kind of nervous because I have heard nothing but awful things about it. When you look up reviews they freak me out more. My main questions are does it affect your sex drive and what about weight gain? I'm only 3 weeks away from giving birth and I have zero sex drive right now. I want my sex life back with my husband. Someone please help me!!