I've had herpes for about 4 years, no suppressive medication. I've only had 2 outbreaks and one more recently. I noticed the OB about 8 days ago. It was pretty much cleared up, probably not fully healed. I understand the process of shedding, I'm just wondering if anyone has rates/chances of transmitting in a situation like this? We had unprotected sex 2x last night.

Can anyone share any info or their stories of maybe infecting their partner? I'm beyond stressed.

I feel terrible, please useful comments only