I got an answer to my question asked Yestrday just to give u little knowledge i and my girl had unprotected sex i didnt ejaculate into her after that she din get her periods for two months she had problems befor regarding her periods they Wernt regular she had been treated and tablets were given to her by the doctor as the course of her tablets were over in the very next week we had sex but I did not ejaculate into her It could be that her period problem might have started again and i also did a pregnancy kit test which turned out to be negative which was done after a moth since we had sex and I got my answer to this but I also want to know incase my girlfriend turns out to be 2 months pregnant then what should I do ..is it nessary to seek parents permission for abortion in India or anything as such ? How much will abortion or anything which could stop this pregnancy cost ? I really don't want mine or her parents to know about it will have an Impact on our future and as far as I know our parents are not ok with all this and I really wouldn't like to let my parents or her parents down ..and as far as I have studied that certain amount of sperm is needed to reach the egg while some die on the way to the egg ?so I did not ejaculate into her but I know unknowingly sperms do come out and u don't even realise but are they enough to reach the egg or to fertilise the egg ?? Please help m very scared
Oh you're going thru agony. Its nice that you are concerned for her. The best thing she can do for her period problems and to prevent pregnancy is to get on the pill. I would do a pregnancy test again since its been longer, and do it first thing in the morning, when she goes to the bathroom the very first time. Here I would say she should see the dr for a test but I don't know what your laws about a girl going without her parents are there. You know that some sperm can be deposited even if you pull out, and yes it can make a woman pregnant. The fact that her periods are irregular could be to her benefit, as far as pregnancy goes. I'm sorry I can't help you about an abortion there. Perhaps someone from india will be able to answer you. Remember that letting parents down is far better then an unwanted child.
I'm not sure what the laws are there in India so I cant tell you if you need parental permission. I cant even tell you what it would cost there. Try another pregnancy test and take it with the first void of the morning. It is best to use the mornings first urine because it will have the strongest concentration of hormones that will trigger a positive result (if they are there). If the test is negative, she can rest assured that she is likely NOT pregnant. Tests, while not perfectly accurate, are pretty accurate so one cant say "for sure" if a test is negative that she is definitely not pregnant but they are fairly accurate. Women that are two months pregnant usually dont have much in the way of symptoms yet.
They may feel very tired, may have very tender, sore, and/or swollen breasts (when I was pregnant, breast tenderness was the very first symptom I had-my breasts were so tender that I could hardly walk without pain), they may have some nausea/vomiting (and this can come any time of day not just in the morning)-she may have an aversion to certain smells that if she smells whatever bothers her, it will make her instantly nauseated (for myself, fried chicken or the smell of brewing coffee made me absolutely ill!), mood swings, fatigue, changes in skin pigmentation, frequent urination, and headaches are common early pregnancy signs. Sometimes the nipples can get darker and some women get a dark line from their umbilicus to the pubic area (known as the linea nigra). Remember though that the mind is a very powerful thing, If she is very stressed and afraid she is pregnant, her body can actually start giving her signs of pregnancy even when she is not pregnant. It is encouraging that her first pregnancy test was negative. I think if you do another, and it is negative, then you can rest pretty sure that she isnt pregnant. Please use protection from now on so you dont have to go through this kind of stress again!
If you find out she is pregnant please talk to your parents about it because they would want to help you in this time of need. This is serious stuff, it's a life they need to be able to help you. Or at least find a responsible adult to help both of you. How old are you two anyway? And you need to use protective sex next time. That is the responsible thing to do if you don't want a child.
I was curious so I looked up some things here's a website I found it says since she's under 18 she needs a guardians signature
Http://lifestyles.iloveindia.com/lounge/abortion-laws-in-india-240.html but also keep in mind if she's pregnant their are only few weeks your two will be able to get an abortion.
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