Hello,
My bf and I were trying to have sex and we did use a condom. As he was trying to put it in we realized he couldn't fit so we stopped condombut when he pulled out the tip of his penis and he still had a condom on but a clear liquid was on the outside of the condom. Now we did use a lubracted condom and we did a little bit of foreplay before he put the tip of his penis in. We did checked the condom twice to see if if it broke by filling it with water and it didn't leak. Is it possible the clear liquid came from me?
Can I become pregnant of the condom didn't break, slip, or leak?
Question posted by Bailey2015 on 31 Jan 2015
Last updated on 17 October 2019 by Itsyagirlokay
Added 31 Jan 2015:
Also he didn't ejaculate.
3 Answers
Itsyagirlokay
17 Oct 2019
The substance was just you being wet. That was not him, it was you.
coloresue
1 Feb 2015
It's possible the fluid came from you. You release some clear fluid if you're sexually stimulated enough. When you say your bf didn't "fit", it was probably because you weren't stimulated enough to produce the fluid that lubricates and helps him enter you smoothly. Your vagina WILL expand to accommodate his size if you're really interested in having sex (turned on). Remember you're made to have babies and that is a much bigger expansion of your vagina. It might take a few minutes, especially if you're worrying about something like getting pregnant.
If this is your 1st time, you may have the hymen to break through and that would make it harder for him to enter. A male has seminal fluid with sperm "leaking" out of his penis before ejaculation. You could become pregnant without an ejaculation, but the possibility is much lower than if he does ejaculate. I hope the condom was on at all times his penis was entering your vagina. That's the best way to be sure you don't get pregnant.
Checking the condom for leaks with water is pretty creative. I guess you know they fail as much as 20%. The other failures would be if it came off, which you've mentioned, and if it developed a small tear or break during sex.
You sound very concerned about getting pregnant. May I suggest a 100% effective way... to not be sexually active and still have a bf. If everything else about your relationship is > or = 90% right, if he can enjoy being with you without sex, then he's a keeper. You'll know it's YOU he's interested in vs. sex. And that feels soooo good!
Bailey2015
1 Feb 2015
The condom did stay on the whole time his penis was entering my vagina, and yes it was my first time doing that and will be the last time doing that. So it's safe to assume that came from me? I did not know woman can produce fluid to.
coloresue
1 Feb 2015
Oh yes. Nature ( for me that's God) takes care of the abrasion problem with both M and Fe mostly dry skin rubbing against each other so vigorously. You secrete fluid IF sexually aroused to help lubricate your skin. It's not unusual for that to be enough and many people use an extra lubricant.
I'm so glad you won't be doing this again. The risk of pregnancy is always a concern. I myself took this risk and got pregnant at 17 yrs. My husband was older and we got married and will celebrate 41 yrs. of marriage this month. That's NOT what usually happens. My girlfriend had the same thing happen but they both married at 16 yrs. and it didn't last. That's more the usual or the woman raises the child on her own. I don't want you to be pregnant if you're not ready. Take care!
coloresue
1 Feb 2015
Oops, I meant to say "it's not unusual for it to NOT be enough... "
Bailey2015
1 Feb 2015
Thank you for your help.
coloresue
1 Feb 2015
You're welcome. I wish you all the best.
kaismama
31 Jan 2015
Its not just possible it is probably from you. You are safe.
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