... medicine but i am scarred so please suggest me what should i do take medicine or abortion
If it were me, I'd have the baby and give it up for adoption. There are allot of people who really want a baby. See a dr, the medicine can be dangerous to take without dr supervision.
Please take some time to consider this - this is a decision you will reflect on for the rest of your life. Very big decision! Either way, seek medical care and take care of yourself. Make sure you have no regrets. I said a prayer for you. EJ23
No one is ever "ready" to have a baby, I had my daughter at 17, and we practically grew up together, but I never regretted having her! This is a decision that is going to make an impact on your life dramatically whether you're having an abortion or keeping your baby. You need to see a doctor that can inform you of All your options, there are more than just medicine or abortion. God bless you, prayers
Taking medication to abort a baby without a Drs supervision is highly dangerous. If it works, there is a possibility that you could hemorrhage (or bleed to death). Another thing is that the drugs used to induce abortions have devastating effects on the unborn child and the medications do not always work to induce and abortion so then you are faced with either getting a surgical abortion to finish the job or having a baby with birth defects from the abortion inducing drugs. If you truly want to go through with aborting your baby, you should look into professionally done surgical abortion. You can always go to a clinic to help you figure out your options. Mainly they are, you can abort the baby, you can have the baby and give it up for adoption to a couple who cannot have their own babies, or you can have the baby and keep it yourself.
I answered your question a few days ago, but for some reason it is not here now. I probably did something wrong when trying to post it here.
I just want you to know that you are the only one with the choice as to what you are going to do as far as having the baby and, if you do, keeping the baby or giving it up for adoption, or having an abortion. Your husband cannot tell you what you have to do, only you can make this decision.
I would suggest that you go to your local Planned Parenthood for counseling. Some people think that all Planned Parenthood does is give women abortions, but this is not true at all. They provide counseling and birth-control to women who may not be able to afford it on their own. They can explain to you the pros and cons and help you to make an informed decision.
I will be praying for you, Mahi!
If you were the one in her condition you would have seen something. Don't use your mistake to prompt her. She is not sharing her thoughts for any unnecessary answers. Just give her a solution.
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