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Suicide Prevention For Older Adults


An older person may see suicide as the only way to escape emotional or physical pain and suffering. You can help provide emotional support for him and get the help he needs. Learn to recognize warning signs that the person may be considering suicide. Find resources to help prevent the person from attempting to take his life.


Call 911 if:

  • The person has done something on purpose to hurt himself or tries to commit suicide.

Return to the emergency department if:

  • The person tells you he made a plan to commit suicide.
  • The person acts out in anger, is reckless, or is abusing alcohol or drugs.
  • The person has serious thoughts of suicide, even with treatment.

Contact the person's healthcare provider or therapist if:

  • You begin to see warning signs that the person may be considering suicide.
  • The person has intense feelings of sadness, anger, revenge, or despair, or he cannot make decisions easily.
  • The person tells you he has more thoughts of suicide when he is alone.
  • The person withdraws from others.
  • The person stops eating, or begins to smoke or drink heavily.
  • The person feels he is a burden because of a disability or disease.
  • The person has trouble dealing with stress, such as a breakup or a job loss.
  • You have questions or concerns about the person's condition or care.

What to do if you think the person is considering suicide:

Call 911 if you feel the person is at immediate risk of suicide, or if he talks about an active suicide plan. Assume that he intends to carry out his plan. Resources are available to help you and the person. The following are some things you can do:

  • Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255) .
  • Call the Suicide Hotline at 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433) .
  • Contact the person's therapist. His healthcare provider can give you a list of therapists if he does not have one.
  • Keep medicines, weapons, and alcohol out of the person's reach. Do not leave the person alone. Stay with him if he says he wants to commit suicide or you think he may try it. Make sure you do not put yourself at risk if he has a weapon.
  • Do not be afraid to ask if he is thinking of ending his life. Ask if he has a plan for hurting or killing himself.

Warning signs to watch for:

It is common for an older person to talk about death and dying, especially if he has a worsening medical condition. This makes it difficult to recognize when an older person is planning suicide. The following are warning signs to watch for:

  • Talking about his plan for committing suicide, or suddenly deciding to make a will
  • A change in how he talks about death, such as suddenly talking about it when he never did before, or suddenly not talking about it
  • Saying he sees no reason to live or he knows he will die soon, so he should end his life to prevent pain and suffering
  • A belief that his family will have an easier time when they no longer have to care for him
  • Cutting himself, burning his skin with cigarettes, or driving recklessly
  • Drug or alcohol use, or not taking his prescribed medicine or taking too much
  • Sudden anger, lashing out at others, or seeming hopeless, anxious, or angry and then suddenly becoming happy or peaceful
  • Not wanting to spend time with others or doing things he usually enjoys
  • A change in the way the person eats, sleeps, or dresses
  • Weight gain or loss, less energy than usual, or trouble sleeping or spend a lot of time sleeping
  • Giving away or throwing away his belongings


Medicine can help the person feel well enough to continue with all of the treatment he needs.

  • Antidepressants help reduce and control symptoms of depression. The person will need to take this medicine as directed. A sudden stop can be harmful, so he must not stop taking the medicine unless directed. It may take 4 to 6 weeks for the medicine to help him feel better.
  • Mood stabilizers help prevent mood swings.
  • Antipsychotics help decrease symptoms of severe agitation and anger.


A therapist can help the person talk through his thoughts and feelings. This can help the person identify problems that are making him think about ending his life. The therapist can help find solutions or make changes that will help the person feel more positive about life.

  • Life review therapy focuses on both the successes and failures of the person's life. He can express his feelings and find peace with anything he feels is not resolved.
  • Cognitive bibliotherapy uses written materials or computer programs to help the person change thoughts that make him feel depressed.
  • Problem solving therapy helps the person find the best way to solve problems. It may also help reduce his desire to commit suicide when he is faced with hard times.

What you can do to help the person:

  • Encourage him to seek help for drug or alcohol abuse. Drugs and alcohol can increase suicidal thoughts and make the person more likely to act on them.
  • Help him connect with others. Encourage him to become involved in his community. Some examples are tutoring a young student, volunteering at a local organization, or joining a group exercise program. The person may need help setting up a computer or creating an e-mail account to help him remain connected to others.
  • Exercise with him. Exercise can lift his mood, give him more energy, and make it easier for him to sleep at night.
  • Encourage him to try new things. Older adults who are open to new experiences handle stress and change better than those who are not.
  • Call, visit, or send postcards to him often. Check on him after the loss of a pet, longtime friend, or child. Holidays, birthdays, and anniversaries can be difficult for a person after a loss. The loss of a spouse can be especially painful and lonely.
  • Schedule a visit with his religious or spiritual leader. This person may be able to offer additional support and resources to the person.
  • Help the person get equipment that will increase his comfort and mobility. Examples are hearing aids, glasses, large print books, and walkers. These can help him enjoy activities and feel more independent.

Follow up with the person's healthcare provider as directed:

Write down your questions so you remember to ask them during your visits.

For support and more information:

  • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
    New York , NY 10004
    Phone: 1- 800 - 273-TALK (8255)
    Web Address:
  • Suicide Awareness Voices of Education
    8120 Penn Ave. S., Ste. 470
    Bloomington , Minnesota 55431
    Phone: 1- 952 - 946-7998
    Web Address:

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