Reactive Attachment Disorder
Medically reviewed by Drugs.com. Last updated on Jan 5, 2023.
Reactive attachment disorder (RAD) means your child has trouble forming bonds with people who take care of him or her. A child may become frightened and frustrated if no one responds to his or her needs, or if response is inconsistent. Your child may not be able to trust that he or she is safe and will be given what he or she needs. Your child may not form bonds with his or her parents or other caregivers he or she sees regularly. Your child may instead be openly affectionate or cling to strangers but not respond to known people.
Seek care immediately if:
- Your child tries to harm himself or herself or another person, or he or she threatens harm.
Contact your child's healthcare provider if:
- You have questions or concerns about your child's condition or care.
Follow up with your child's healthcare provider as directed:
Write down your questions so you remember to ask them during your visits.
Ways to help your child:
- Respond to your child's needs. Respond the same way each time. Children learn to trust when they receive consistent care and attention. Do not force attention on your child or force him or her to hug you. Offer attention and be willing to accept if he or she offers attention to you. You may have to build trust before you can hug him or her.
- Do not try to discipline your child if he or she will not respond. An attempt to force your child to respond may make the behavior worse. Therapists can help you learn when discipline is appropriate and how to be strict without making your child feel unsafe.
- Be interactive with your child. Give your child eye contact and smile when you speak with him or her. Give your child your full attention when he or she speaks to you. Talk to your younger child while you are giving him or her a bath, changing his or her diaper, or feeding him or her. Ask your older child about his or her day at school. Eat meals together, and encourage him or her to talk with you. Remember that your child is learning to understand body language. He or she may misinterpret if you seem hurried or tense. Be patient as your child learns to pick up cues and body language. It might be helpful to tell him or her why you are stressed. This will help him or her understand that it is not because of him or her.
- Limit the number of people who take care of your child. He or she will have a more difficult time bonding if several people take care of him or her regularly. It may be helpful to find someone you trust to care for your child for short periods of time. This will allow you time to rest and come back to your child feeling calm and positive.
- Talk to your child's teachers and school officials. Your child may have trouble making friends. He or she may act out in class. Your child's teachers or classmates may not want to include him or her in activities. It is important for your child to feel accepted and supported at school and at home. Your child's teachers may be able to help him or her in the classroom. Your child's school may have programs to help him or her.
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