... min she is taking water tablets however she is still swollen really bad last year she has a massive bleed from her osohghaus which required a procedure called a tips procedure. she is still drinking, I am so down with it all now as I am her main carer, I have 2 babies and doing a degree in psychology. I dont have the heart to turn my back on her as she is so vaulnerable, I carnt see a positive out come for her as she really is abusing her body, it broke my heart yhe other day as i had to go into a shop and buy her a bottle of cider otherwise she woild of had a fit... what do I do please help me x