Ok I am 17 years old of age, my gf is 16. well anyways me and my gf had sex for the first time and i had protection on which is a condom,.it was around between the end of october & november i am not really sure. but from there that is when everything has changed,. which i mean when i had protected sex for the first time, her period changed and she still hasn't got it, she did a pregnancy test and came out negative. but from there we had sex for a couple of times now and they were with condom,. but then from there, couple weeks ago, we had sex and i had a condom, then from there the second sex activity i didn't have any so i did it with no protection,. but i did not finish in her or ejaculate in her,. and at that time she still hasn't had her period yet. then our last sex we had was on the december 1st which is on a saturday in the morning unprotected, and went in her really deep, roughly as you can say, is this why its causing her period to come late? i am really worried, 2 months late not having her period yet? is it because she is stressed out a lot? she has told me she is stressed out a lot. but I'm just not sure anymore,. someone help me out please? i don't know what to think anymore
Me and my gf had unprotected sex and worried?
Question posted by uriel13 on 4 Dec 2012
Last updated on 16 February 2015
I really need some help soon as possible! help me out guys please.
Added 4 Dec 2012:Her last period was October 19 2012, and still hasn't got it now
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hi am 23 yrs of age i have unprotected sex with my husband with my period bout 5 days now u pull out but since after that i stared feeling sick on morning cant eat help help help plz could i be pregnant
hi am 23 yrs of age i had unprotected sex with my husband with my periods, an now it is about 5days now since i have been feeling sick on morning cane eat help help help plz could i be pregnant
by the sounds of it you are actually pregnant but i see that this was dec last year... howd it go
Most likely you are. I would definitely take a pregnancy test asap.
Most likely you are. I would definitely take a pregnancy test asap.
I had sex last month after my cycle on the 13th of January and now its the16th of February can I be pregnant if I haven't gotten my cycle I am 19
OK... First off I need to stress to you that Pulling out does not work hon!! It does not matter how early you pull out , it does not matter weather you ejaculate inside her or not, once your penis enters her vagina, or for that fact gets near her vagina you can excreat sperm and she can get pregnant!!! The first thing that you need to do is get a pregnancy test, and I recommend going to a planned parenthood clinic or whatever free clinic that you have for family planning near you! Just using a condom is not reliable enough, your girlfriend needs to be on the pill or another safe reliable form of birth control, like the Depo shot something that is reliable. Also, please don't take this the wromg way, but, It sounds to me like you are both wayyyyyy tooooo young to be having sex!! You have obviously not had the right guidence about birth control.
I do give you credit for having enough sence and being responsiable enough to use a condom, but just a condom is not enough to be totally safe from pregnancy! You sound like a guy who really does care about your girlfriend, so do the right thing and get her a home pregnancy test or better yet, like I said earlier, get her to a Family Planning clinic and get her tested for pregnancy, and if she is not pregnant, and you are gong to continue to have sex PLEASE have her get on a reliable form of birth control!
I really wish the both you good luck! and I hope that everything turns out ok. ~~~~happybrandee~~~~
sigh... alright i told her that she needs to get another home test, and to do it first thing she wakes up in the morning. and she said, she is going to do it and tell me. but I'm stressing out so much:/ i try to calm down. and i try to make sure she's ok and that whatever she feels to let me know, and she is telling me everything. and so far right now today,. she feels ok like normal,. nothing else,. i just hope everything is ok. :/ but i can't afford birth control stuff. i don't want her to get side effects of those birth control pills. anyway i can't afford them, may be expensive, here in the state California,Visalia.
i really did my best to be protective with or without condom, but I'm so sure that didn't happen,. anyway i can't argue about it because i guess its my fault
also... you sound like you are really trying to protect your girlfriend, and that is a good thing! and I really have to give you credit for that and the fact that it sounds like you are trying to be responsiable and mature about this situation. I really hope that she is not pregnant for both of your sakes, because neither of you are ready for kids. And if it does turn out that she isn't pregnant and you still decide to continue to have sex... PLEASE, PLEASE find a Family Planning Clinic in your city, and like I said in my last comment, they have them in every city in the US. Go online to find one or you can ask your school guidence counselor, or call social services, but she needs to go on reliable birth control like the pill or the Depo shot, and don't worry about the side effects or the hormones, birth control is safe for healthy young women.
also remember, if she does go on the pill, use a back up form of birthcontrol like condoms and foam for the first month that she is on the pill. Anyway... keep me informed if you want about how things are going and if you have any more questions just ask everyone here is here to help you!
I had sex with my gf. by mistake Condom was broken I dint noticed. and I ejjaculated in her vegina. I asked her to clean up everything. she did it. she she took ipill immediatly. is there any chances that she will get pregency? ??? and we r eagerly waiting for her periods.
Here's what I think. You two are too young to be having sex until you have some information. First of all, pulling out is not a method of birth control. By the time you ejaculate you have left sperm in her vagina. So forget about that, its a myth. Second, if any girl is going to have sex, she should be on another method of birth control, other then a condom. Condoms aren't always reliable. So get her on the pill or something. Planned parenthood will help her. Thirdly, if she hasn't had her period since Oct, this is a major concern. She should do another pregnancy test. Be sure its not outdated and that she does the test as soon as she gets out of bed in the morning. Planned parenthood can help out with this too.
But i didn't Ejaculate in her, i pulled out way before to make sure. but ok i will have her have another pregnancy test and i can't afford birth control pills. is there any way i can get them?
But can it also happen by to much stress that can delay her period late?
planned parenthood is the word for that. Its the best place for a teen girl to go, she should find one and make an appt. You do not have to ejaculate in her to get her pregnant. Precum is full of sperm. Its a shame they charge so much for the pill, but planned parenthood doesn't.
Stress isn't going to make her period that late. You just don't skip a period because of stress.
:/ ah man,. im so worried..what can i do? to not get pregnant? what can she take? do i need parents permision? because i dont want that
oh dear lord,. but im sure i didnt pre cum, i always took it out way before
what should i do now? like now so i can get going? because i dont want the time to defeat me and my parents finding out about this:/
Its too late to do anything other then find out if she's pregnant, planned parenthood can help you guys and no she doesn't need permission from her parents. Its so refreshing to have a guy worried about it.
uhm i had protected sex on december 8 .. and umm i guess we were to rough, after that sexual activity when she got home she called me and said she saw a stain on her underwear and had little bit of blood,. not a lot,, just a bit, and then after a while she started to bleed with tiny brown with the blood, but there was more blood then brown... but it just happened for one day and that is it. from there we planned to not have no more sex. until she gets her period. but as I'm trying to find out,. why did she start to bleed? was it because i was to rough on her? worries me a lot
You are so sweet. When a woman has sex, it increases the hormones that make the uterus contract. This can cause a small amount of bleeding. I would not consider it a full period if I were you. There is still the possibility she is pregnant.
oh i understand now, thanks. and Yes. it was a small amount of bleeding but it stopped the same day she had it. but she feels perfectly fine, always as normal. she looks less stressed out now, than before. and is it because she trying to get on her period?
She may have relaxed about it because she bled. If the doc said she was pregnant, she most likely is.
Hi!, i Have some Good news and some Bad News.
Good news is, My gf finally got her period on the day December,12, 2012 (wednesday). she is not pregnant and she got her period! i thank so much god for that. now that i have learned my lesson, i am not going to have sex no more, me and my gf agreed. but if we are still together in future, then yes.
BAD News: However I don't understand how this happened, why didn't she get pregnant? thats the thing i am confused of. can anyone explain to me with good details? why was her period so late 2 months?
Something was off in her body, maybe a hormone imbalance or something. The fact that she didn't get pregnant was luck for both of you. Its harder to get pregnant then some people think since there is such a narrow window of time, but hitting it so you're not at that time is what is hard for kids.
oh ok i understand, and what do you mean that was luck
That she didn't get pregnant.
alright thanks.
I know this was probably mentioned but from the very second you enter your girlfriend small amounts of sperm are released the whole time long before you "pull out" so many people have become parents early or had to lose their significant other due to a abortion. All the advice from.. Kiasmama should be followed & both of you and your girlfriend if you are going to have sex be smart about it. Look into some books or media that goes way deeper into the subject not only for facts & safety never go by what people say even me check the facts. You will also learn ways to make each other feel alot better but more importantly safer.
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