I am so anxious to get out of pain asking questions and reading answers- still trying to get how to use this site (which by the way seems like an honest forum and a good place to get reliable information. Where do I start to get how to add/ stay in touch with members without overstepping my presence? Does anyone have the location for the "quick start" guidelines similar to what I get when I open a new electronic component, and the manufacturer knows that no one wants to read the entire instruct. booklet but just hop over to get the basics for now- a How it works Icon on this page suggests I read and rate questions but I am unclear on where/how to rate a question or response (?) when I am just looking for genuine, frank information I don't want anyone to fear from a "rating" ?