How do you get help for 39 yr old man who refuses to go to the Dr.? His problem has always been ignored by his parents. He was is special ed. He can't hold a job, he lies all the time, go into rages if he doesn't get his way. His mother puts money on a money card for groceries (he lives with me/nephew). He brought roaches with him and tells me he's keeping his room clean,etc.. I checked his room and found old dirty cereal bowls, open food packages, molded tea all hidden. Then raged cause I went in his room. He doesn't think anything is wrong with him. He's schizophrenic. HELP