I've not been sexually active in 7 years, now I've met a man and he can't penetrate me because of excruciating pain, I've been using different kinds of lubricants KY jelly, etc. But it's been 3 weeks and still can't please help! I had endometrial cancer so Dr prob won't want me on hormones and I can't get in to see him for few weeks. Can you help me?