I dont know what else to do. I have been with my fiance for four years and last year i caught him shooting oxys. He is now in a methadone program but has relapsed and has since been back on methadone. I guess what I am really asking is has anyone ever stayed with there man during this situation and if so has the lying stopped and the stealing? I just dont know what to do anymore. He has been on methadone for about a year now. he still lies, steals, and nods off all the time. I cant tell if he is using or if its the methadone. he has lost his job and now i am the only one working. I am so stressed out and confused i am at a lost of what to do. I know that i need to get help also I have never been addicted to anything and i dont know how to deal. if anyone has been in this situation or currently is can you please help???