I met my husban when he was not using. Then after a few mouths he started. From that time I have trying to help get out of it. Wqe got married and he when from using every day to using ones a week. After that just when he have money witch is not alot. I am struggling because I have knowhere to go to. My parents don't want me there and i have to ask them for money everytime. Without my husban I don't have anything because my parents is giving only for him and nothing for me also. What do I do. I am going into a deppretion and don;t no how to handel it.
I had an Aunt she literally let my Uncle kill her, she wasted so much time with him and he always found it let it come rain or shine and he knew how and who she like you went into depression she fought and then decided it was overwhelming please I understand that it is but you are worth life and not to go through games like this, you need to tell him things are going to change and let him know you aren't going to set back and just akkow his behavior to destroy you, there are organizations, churches somewhere there is a way it won't be easy but to think that you allow him to take you down is more than I even want to think about!! my Grandma use to say she'd rather live under a bluff and be happy than to put up with alcohol and drugs!
she was right and you will overcome just keep looking and you need people for good Lords sake being left alone is the worst and you are worth more than you are thinking for, he thinks and knows its hard for you and he feels you won't be a struggle for him, wake him up I don't have all the answers but I know that somewhere someway there isa a way and you for your own sake don't allow his destructive behavior to ruin your life, he only has as much power as he thinks he does! I am on here and I am always willing to talk and be a friend you need someone to care and give you an outlet. I just pray and ask that you have God's blessings and you overcome this Caringsonbj Billy
Try all you can to help him first he has to admitt he has a problem if he can do that then rehab would your next move. you need to reach down inside of you and find the courage, and face the facts you are a married woman your husband is suppose to be the main provider. Never look at any human being as your everything that is an abnormal possessive type of love. parents will help but they need to see you help your self. Yes this situation is depressing but you got to love yourself enought to if he cant get his act together in a decent time frame tell him goodbye.
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