Sex just isn't what I thought it would be.
Am I doing something wrong?
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Hi all. I was wondering, on this topic, what am I to do about the whole issue. The last few times I had sex, well, I may have well been receiving an oil change - absolutely zero pleasure. Each time I was just thinking, like, will he hurry up?
Now on top of the meds, two years ago I had a radical hysterectomy (cancer) and therefore have no hormone producing ovaries to telegraph little smiles to the parts concerned. And don't say HRT - doctor said HRT is absolutely not an option, at least not until 5 years being cancer free.
So my issue is - what do I do about the question of men when I have a total aversion to sex? That is how I feel about it now - like sex is not anything I will engage in. BUT, I am lonely and miss the company of a partner. How can I possibly expect someone to honor my anti-sex feelings, were I to be so lucky to find someone compatible?
What I do now is just pretend the other half of the population is just dead to me. But I miss so many things... well being in a relationship.
Tonk a, as for the innocent, I hope she returns also. As a nurse, you wouldn't believe some os the things young girls believe these days. They definitely need somebody to talk to and tell it straight. As a woman, I understand exactly what you are talking about. It's as if my body has just switched gears!! I can't figure it out. I've been going through menopause also, and I known the problem is coming from me because I have a wonderful husband, and our sex life has always been great, better than great, awesome!!! But lately, something is just not right with me. I hope that I am not offending anyone when talking about this. but I was under the impression that we could talk about anything here. Am I wrong? if so I won't come back either. Anyhow, there are so many things on the market for men and very few for woman.
Some men just don't get the fact that if their woman is satisfied, their sex life will be so much better. Am I right?? But that isn't my problem. I just lost interest for some reason, and. I'm blaming menopause for it. NIK
I've got to add my two cents worth here: Ever since my fall and being on muscle
Relaxers, large doses of opiates, Anti- depressants, meds to help me sleep, ect., my libido is just absolutely gone! No desire at all, which after awhile resulted in no sex at all. I am fortunate to be married to a great guy that accepts this, but for both of us not to have sex since we were 40 (we're 51 now) - I just feel we are missing out on so much! I do wish scientists would spend some of that research money on women's problems!
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