Someone very close to me is becoming very aggressive and I don't know what to do. I love him dearly, and up until today, I never dreamed he would behave like I seen him do. he's severely depressed and angry all the time about everything and anything. one minute he's a calm and sweet individual, and in an instant he is screaming and yelling and he snaps and strikes out at the people he loves the most. he tells me he wants to die so often that I can't hardly sleep anymore for fear that I will wake up one day and he will be gone. He's been through some very stressful situations over the past couple of years. he had a failed marriage that was doomed from the start, and a precious child has been pulled apart in a nasty, ongoing, custody battle. he has everything to live for including a family that has stood by him through all of it. he has OCD, depression and I think there could still be an ongoing problem with medications. I'm at a loss as to what I should do. Up to this point I never would have believed he would be physically abusive to anyone, especially to the people he cares about, but now I know for sure that he has been. if I step in and do something then he would be at risk of losing everything, his job, his children, his future. but if I don't do anything he could still lose them, and then I would lose them too. They are my grandkids and I love them like they are my own. I feel so lost, I don't know what to do. Any advise from anybody would be welcome. Are anger management facilities really confidential? NIK