So 4 days ago me and my gf where sexually 'fooling around' when she told me to put it in, which I did. It was only in and out about 5 times and I didn't ejaculate or even come near it. She is on birth control but regularly forgets to take it at the right time (still takes it every day). Her 7 days without taking the pull started 5 days ago and this happened 4 days ago so she was really close to her period. She hasn't taken a pregnancy test. We both realise how irresponsible we were and have agreed that we will not have sex until we want a baby. She told me today that she doesnt even feel her period coming. I'm very worried. Could she be pregnant?
I had unprotected sex with my gf 4 days ago and she's late. Is she pregnant? (we're both 16)?
- 18 Jul 2013 by JustForOneQuestion16
- 18 July 2013
- pregnancy, sex, unprotected sex
Added 18 Jul 2013:
She is also very stressed about this and that could cause her period to take longer. Which would cause even more stress
Added 18 Jul 2013:
I'm not sleeping until I get an answer, not even going to try, my stomachs doing jumping jacks
My son and his girlfriend had to come to me with this issue. I really was not enjoying this because we were raised with moral Christian Values. I had to forget about that when dealing with them. I asked how many times, did you use a condom, how long did it last, is she on birth control? Then we had to call her at her mother's house and instruct her to walk down around her corner, so her mom wouldn't see us come and pick her up. We went immediately to a pharmacy and bought a two pack pregnancy test kit. We went to my appartment, where I live alone. Then I had to teach her how to use the tests, make sure the stick is pointed down; and the tip is in the urine flow, and urinate for as long as you can. But save enough for the second test. I felt certain that she was not pregnant, she uses the pill and a condom, but she was late. The story is that her mother got pregnant while using both pill and a condom-this is what panicked them both. A few minutes went by and they were speechless, I read the results."This one is negative, and so is this one." I assured them both that she is most assuredly not pregnant, not if she's already a little late, and the story about your mom and her miraculous birth, is probably a case of not using birth control pills, or condoms correctly which did the damage. Most people fail to use birth control products correctly and it's just human error. I doubt that she is pregnant especially if you did five strokes, without any sensation that you were ready to ejaculate.
If you really want to stop worrying. go get a test kit with two tests. This will ensure that two negative tests confirm no false surety of no pregnancy. They never had sex again after that day!! First time sex is really not that pleasurable! I knew I could have waited, but at least I made it to 21!
If she is on the Pill and takes it every day, you were likely protected enough. Birth control pills are a little more effective when taken around the same time each day but they are still effective as long as she takes one a day, just not top effectiveness. I'm sure she will be fine. Anxiety can indeed delay a womans period. She can start her period anytime in the seven "off" days so she may yet start. If she is more than a week late, she can go ahead and test.
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