a year ago dcfs took my daughter away becouse her dad and i were using meth. we both stopped using and worked really hard to get her back. right after they closed the case he relapsed and is back using again. the thing that worries me most is if he gets caught with my daughter around him they will take her away again. i myself am still sober but am afraid of the conflict. what should i do???
the obvious answer is rite in front of you, if you stand a chance in losing her for him being in his addiction, then take your child and stay with family. if its the embaressment that you dont want your family or friends to know whats going on ,and money permits, stay at a hotel and call it girls vacation if anyone asks questions. is he willing to go into a treatment? do you meth as in methadone, or meth as in crystal methamphetamines? try and talk your childs dad into going into treatment, at one of his sober moments, remind him of the heartwrench you and him along with your child went thru while she was away from you. i hope things get better. is there that one friend you can trust with anything? mabe you and your daughter can stay there till he wakes up and goes to treatment. its always a harsher situation when your kids where already taken away once before, actually could make it worse, get support, and take your girl and get out before you lose her, take care
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