The relationship I'm in is so bad that I'm scared to have my baby. My daughter who is my life is 17 and her and the guy I'm with do not like one another. I can't even relax in my own home. I found out I'm pregnant and up to a few days ago I was going to move out. Now my anxiety is so high I feel like I'm losing my mind. Anyone been here before. All my family says is all negative. I'm looking for advice...
With a stressed relationship should I have baby?
Added 28 Mar 2013:
Thank u all for comments. I wish it was that easy. The only reason why I was moving out was because they didn't get along. But he makes me very happy when were alone. So it left me choosing my daughter or him, and now I'm pregnant and my daughter in past has said to me I hope u never marry him or worse have a child with him. So I think she's being selfish and I'm not thinking about my happiness just hers. Then I have parents saying just get an abortion. In a perfect world I would carry this child to term and we all live one another. Like that's going to happen. I feel like I want to run away from all of them and be alone with me and my new baby. The feelings I have are scary and it sucks feeling alone
You have to think what is best for you and your baby right now. If you do not see a future with this boyfriend it is time to leave with your daughter and start a new life for yourselves. This will help your anxiety a lot. I think in your heart you know what is best for you. But it is your decision.
I am really sorry that you are going through this. The only thing that I can tell you is that I know from experience that staying with a guy in a bad relationship because you are pregnant will NOT make the relationship better, in fact , it will more than likely make it worse.
You need to do what your heart tells you is right for you, your daughter, and the baby that you are carrying. Believe me, sometimes leaveing, even when there is a baby coming, is the best thing to do!
follow your heart, you know what is best for you and your kids!
I wish you the best!
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