... me but I was too tight and he couldn't go further. We tried both the vaginal and anal intercourse but either wasn't going,added to the fact that even as he was trying to, it was hurting so much and I tried and relaxed but I couldn't open up more for him to enter. Is it because I was tensed or does it happen that a vagina gets too tight for a d**k to enter? What's a solution that can help the next time we try it?