I was very desperate for a job and had unprotected sex with a guy who promised me a job on the 7th of March 2014, I took morning after pills on the 8th March, first day of my last period was on 16 March (of which I was convinced the pill worked). I then had unprotected sex again (after my period) with my boyfriend several times but don't recall the dates (somewhere from March 10) . I found out I was pregnant on the 10th of April and went for an ultrasound on the 30th of April, my Doc said I am 7wks 5dys preg. How accurate could that be as I believed at the back of my mind that I am between 5-6wks pregnant. Could it be possible that the pill didn't work? I'm scared and confused that it might not be my boyfriends. Please help. I am losing my mind and can't seem to not stress about this mess I put myself in.
There isnt much you can do to figure it out until you have the baby. You had sex with both guys close together so it could be either.
The US is pretty accurate at gauging age of fetus. Bleeding, unfortunately, is not a sign that the emergency contraceptive worked. It is possible to bleed some and still be pregnant. Were you sexually active before or around the time that you had sex with this other man? So it could be either man's child? You have a couple of choices here that I see, You can continue the pregnancy and see what comes. You can confess what happened to your boyfriend (and I am assuming he doesn't know about the sex for the job) and let him know there is a possibility this child may not be his. Or you can wait and have paternity tests done. You do realize that it is sexual harassment to promise you a job based on having sex with someone? If this is a legitimate job in which you will pay taxes upon. He has broken the law by promising you a job based on having sex with him or not. You could report this to the board of labor. What sort of desperate situation you must be in to fall victim to this sort of harassment, I wont ask, but this is illegal for someone to do so. You certainly do have a mess on your hands! Does your boyfriend know that you are pregnant? You can consider aborting the child silently as another option. but that is for you and your own conscience to decide.
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