Female(36), I have always struggled to reach orgasm. I haven't used any meds until recently. I had a baby a year ago (cesarean) and I have lost my urge to have sex. When i do have sex it is very painful inside, different positions don't make much difference. My back is also extremely painful, the doc said it is muscle related, but nothing i tried (tablets, plasters, injections, massages, etc.) has helped. Please help.