me and my bf are talking about having sex and i am not on the pill but i know that condoms are 98 percent effective when used correctly.. obviously theres that 2 percent chance of pregnancy.. i don't want to get on the pill because my mom is extremely nosey and always in my business and goes through my stuff.. is it okay to use a condom but not be on the pill?
Your mother is being a mother. If you are secretive she's going to find out why. This is what mother's do. Its their job to protect you, whether you like it or not. God gave you parents for a reason. If you didn't need them to guide you you would have been found under a cabbage leaf. I don't know where you got your figures about condoms. If you don't use them with a contraceptive cream or foam, they have a 20% failure rate. Judging by what we see here, I would never trust a condom if it was important that I didn't get pregnant. You could go to planned parenthood and get a shot. Believe me, your mom would want you protected the best you can be. I'm not sure why society thinks if you don't have access to birth control you won't have sex, nothing could be further from the truth. I'm a mother and I have 2 grandaughters too. My daughter came to me at 16 and said Mom I want to go on the pill. I took her to the dr. She knew I wasn't happy she'd be sexually active but I sure didn't want to be a grandmother yet.
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