met this guy a week ago. He lives & works in Key Largo. I'm in pompano beach. He's been blowing up my phone texting all day while he is at work & then after work constantly for 4-5 hours straight. Tonight is his first time off since we've met & as soon as he got off work told me his moms not feeling to good so he was going over to see her. Said he would talk to me tomorrow. I've tried to contact him multiple times since 6pm to find out if his mom is doin better or not. I havnt gotten any sort of response from him. It seems very shady the way he's acting. From texting me over 100 tines a day to ignoring me on his night off. Is it just me or does this situation look bad? It only takes 1 minute to text me back & tell me whats going on with his mother. If it was reversed personally I would appreciate his concern & support.
Need help now please?
- 2 Jan 2013 by Anonymous
- 7 January 2013
From what you said so far, it does appear to be rather a strange situation. Usually going with your gut instinct, I have found that first impressions are right on the money. Only you can make a decision on how far you want to go with the way things you have described have happened. It does seem strange that someone who would blow up your phone for several days and then disappear, it does seem rather shady as you have said. Try not to invest too much energy into something that you're not sure of. Protect your heart at all cost. He may have a very valid reason for not calling, but as you said it only takes a minute to text someone and let them know what's happening. Just be careful and take care. I hope I've helped you at least a little bit. I wish you luck.
The ladies are quite right - run, don't walk, away from this guy. Your instincts are telling you there's something very wrong here and I find I'm very rarely wrong when I follow my instincts. There's more than one fish in the sea and you, lucky girl, live by the ocean!!
Well Truffles in my opinion I am going to say dump him he is loser not to get back to u... this is the first time I have commented on your post and I can say u deserve so much better don't let yourself settle for anything less then better!!! wishing u the best new year without a looser!!!
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