Okay guys basically a few months ago i posted on here about Emergency Contraceptive Pills as i was worried , but now i have a new situation...
Since then i have become extremely careful when it comes to intercourse.. Checking condoms every 10-20 mins for holes/ breakage or slippage , holding to base when i ejaculate inside and need to remove , and remembering to leave the space at the tip for ejaculation .. checking the expiry date or not ejaculating at all inside! i also thoroughly check the condoms after intercourse for holes by filling with water then blowing air in them and there is nothing! My girlfriend usually has a 28 day cycle so i avoided intercourse between day 9 - day 17 just to be sure! i know ovulation can happen any time of the month but at least i tried to avoid her most fertile time!
Last month we had intercourse on day 14 of her cycle which i got panicked about but she got her period 2 days early to my relief. This has put my trust in the way i use the condoms very very carefully but i still get nervous or anxious that her period has not yet come.
Basically her period is normally a 28 day cycle which came 2 days early last month on the 12th of march , it lasted around 5 days and it was normal.. we had intercourse as far as im aware of the latest on the 9th day(21st of march) before supposed ovulation date .. we then took a break from intercourse as i would not let her cause i get very anxious and paranoid if we have sex at around the time of supposed ovulation period day 10-16 (roughly).. even though we have never calculated ovulation for her so we arent sure but her cycles are 28 days long so 2 weeks before next period should be ovulation date which would have been day 14...
the next time we had intercourse was day 17 and day 18 or 19(not sure) i ejaculated inside on one of these dates ( not 100 percent sure but i think day 17) i made sure there are no holes or anything in the condom and im extremely careful when it comes to intercourse .. i also still have those 3 condoms just incase i get panicky to put my mind at ease (i have washed them obviously).. but it is no april 12th and still no sign of a period i dont believe she is having any symptoms of any sort yet.. in the past week she has been very worried over language exams ( they contribute to final exams) that are coming up that she really hates .. she has been doing major amounts of study and is extremely stressed over these .. she tells me she constantly has a sick/nervous feeling over them.. sometimes when she is coming to her period she gets very emotional over things like if we cant decide over places to eat when we are studying in a nearby town.. this happened the other day but she is terrible stressed at the moment so i believe its all just overwhelming her a bit.. she is the tests in 3 days time .. her period theoretically should have came last thursday the 9th its now sunday the 12th and her exams are this wednesday the 15th ... should i be worried .. i cannot stress how carefull ive been , ive been so careful.. more careful than other months.! she is refusing to think about it and she is more concentrated on exams as i didnt think there was a possibility until her period was late.. not that i entirely still do .. she doesnt really pay attention to her cycles and i track them more than she does as im a very very paranoid person.. shes been so stressed lately and ive just been telling her its probably the time of month coming again .. then the other night she got worried a small bit after i said i was a bit worried about her period coming this was the day it was due i was a bit worried .. so then i just said its not due for another few days possibly a week just so she wouldnt get more stressed . and mess up exams and potentially delay her period more ! so im just waiting a few more days and ill see then ! maybe it will come after her exam.. thanks for the help guys i really really appreciate it !