Ok me and my boyfriend had sex last night and it was unprotected we had sex 4 times last night but he pulled it out before he cummed and then went to the bathroom to pee before we did anything again except the secound time he took it out and then about an hour later we did it again but he didn't pee in between then and now today I feel like I'm plugged up with poop and my overies. Hurt and my but muscles hurt and it feels weird when I pee oh and I'm on birth control I don't no what my body is trying to tell me and my vagina feels like it's dry and there like air tryin to come out of it I'm a little confused I have felt this way somewhat before after we had sex but not this weird I'm really scared that I'm pregnant I'm really young so I need some info please thanks
Plan and simple your a mess. You worked yourself up into a panic over nothing. You would not have any symptoms of pregnancy, you just had sex. And your symptoms aren't signs of pregnancy. Now you're on the pill, so what are you worried about. You aren't going to get pregnant. Him going to pee means nothing.
Its just a shame no one is teaching you kids about your bodies anymore. These are adult games you are playing but you don't have any adult knowledge.
It is sore from frequent sex. You may have been not fully lubricated and may have tiny little tears on your vaginal or vulva tissues from friction. Sometimes air is introduced into the vagina when having sex but it is usually easily expelled when you get up and move around. When you are on the Pill it is not necessary to pull out before ejaculation because if you are taking it correctly you dont ovulate and you cant get pregnant if there is no egg to be fertilized. It is a wasted gesture anyways as it doesnt offer any extra protection. Men leak out sperm long before they ejaculate (or cum) and urinating between sexual episodes doesnt help anything either (other than it can help to clear his urethra and help keep him from getting an infection in his bladder but it doesnt help as far as pregnancy is concerned). Your butt muscles are just sore from overuse. You dont get pregnancy symptoms right away, in fact fertilization can occur hours or days after sex in some cases. Your body wouldnt even know it is pregnant yet. Symptoms come from hormonal changes and there hasnt been time for any of that to occur. You are just sore and freaking your self out! Frequent sex can irritate the urinary meatus (opening where the pee comes out) and this can lead to painful urination and can also lead to a bladder infection (Drs call this "honymoon cystitis" because back in the days when women didnt have sex until marriage, it was common for women to get bladder infections right after their wedding nights) The vagina is right next to the rectum and is just divided by the vaginal wall and rectal wall tissues so sexual trauma from "rough" sex may also make your rectum feel tender making you feel like you are needing to empty your bowels. Your vagina very well could feel dry, it is likely raw from all the sex you had and may even be a bit swollen. It may be soothing to use a little olive oil on your labia (lips). It may also be soothing to take a lukewarm bath. Dont use soap on your vagina, just let the water soothe the raw tissues. You just "over did" a bit and now your body is telling you so.
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