After not having a period for over two months & have three pregnancy test come out negative--I had blood drawn. My Dr informed me yesterday that based on the results I'm post menopausal. She couldn't have stunned me more if she had actually told me I pregnant. I knew I had been going through perimenipause but actually finished menopause. I was not expecting that at 40. I know I should be happy--no periods, no camps, etc but I'm stunned, a little depressed and find myself crying. Is this normal?