... leakage daily. Once he went to college it became impossible to continue while living in a dorm. Once he stopped that was the end. Now when we visit him we notice him struggling with bathroom issues and he smells. I know what the problem is I would like some help in how to go about addressing this very personal, sensitive issue. He is married, successful and takes good care of himself. He also has to catheterize several times a day because he no longer has a bladder. Please help if you can. And telling me to buck up and just tell him is the obvious. I truly would like to do this as best I can. This man has been through way too much for me to do this indelicately