Hello I am writing this as some of you know my mother passed away this past Friday February 10 at 7:10 PM she had just been admitted to hospice care at noon and then I could see the signs with her Kidney failure and other complications that she was in the process of passing right before my eyes, about 6:50 PM Friday evening she became ill and she got into my arms and she was as peaceful as could be I could feel her body leaving, she knew I had a place and good church family and especially a particular family who has taken me into their home and I do truthfully feel at home. the funeral as Mary told you was yesterday the showing was from 11 a.m. to 1 pm then the funeral, I do mourn but I know full well she is in God''s hands he allowed me the privilage of helping her through various chapters of her life all the way up till age 94 one of her last wishes was to pass away here at home with me I cannot possibly think of a greater honor than to be able to take care of someone in the end them be on no medications and her mind was as clear as a bell! I will miss her terribly it is my intent when the time is right to return to this site and help in any and every way that I possibly can, I hope to try and honor her by living my life in a way that allows me with the physical challenges to be the very best I can be and to help others to do it in a way that keeps me going and as active as possible yet I allow myself to take care of myself to be the very best that I can possibly be! I am so appreciative of your kind thoughts, your prayers your well wishes just any and everything that made things the best that they could possibly be, I feel sure that anyone who has the honor of knowing drugs.com and the members of it is so very blessed in every way you can just sense the united thoughts and well wishes I will get the computer but it like many things takes time and I don't have it with me at all times I come home get the mail and some other things that need my attention but I do not drive and I try very hard not to detain someone else with obligations its a privilage to be able to have the kind acts but I believe with all my heart that it is an absolute that if I really appreciate the kindness of another person then I will make it on time its just the right thing to do. It can be done and I believe its one of those things that just shows how you feel about others and the respect that should be just as easy as falling off a log again I thank each and every one of you I would ask that you pass this along and that every person is aware of my deep sense of appreciation I thank you and I Love and respect each one of you Caringsonbj (Billy)
I hope you are doing well and I want to give you my condolences. I know that you loved your mom with all your heart, my thoughts and prayers go out to you. Just remember that she left knowing that you loved her and that she was proud of you. Take care my friend
am so sorry for ur loss. wellcome back to the feed. i know how it is to loose someone who u loved, i too lost my mom several yrs ago and to this day i miss her. take one day at a time and for coming back here, only if ur a really up to it. we will all b waiting. god bless you.
My wonderful, thoughtful, & loving friend, I am so glad you took the time today to read the responses from all your friends. I told you how much you were missed & how many had sent prayers & good thoughts your way, but what an experience to read it first hand. I for one know the close relationship with your Mom, but as you say she is in Gods hands, & in a better place. I am sorry I missed her funeral because of the bad road conditions of which you know I would have been there. I hope you enjoyed the plant & flowers we sent for you & Mom. I did tell the site that it was from Gary & me, but also included each & everyone on the site. Our hearts are are hurting for you at this time of grieving. When your ribs heal, we or they need you back here. I understand you have a lot going on right now, & the computer is not a priority as you can only post 1 time a day. Thankyou for being my friend too. I love you... Mary
you may not know me, but i know what it is like to feel loss and pain, sorry that your mum passed away, its does leave a whole behind in your heart, but you may find comfort knowing that she is no longer in pain or suffering.. and that there are people around you that care and will stand beside you when you need that extra support, you are not alone in your grief..
So sorry that my reply is late, Billy, as my computer has an illness... regardless, it is so good to hear from you, and hear that you have a great attitude. I know that the times ahead are very trying, and that you keep your chin up for everyone, but please, allow yourself to mourn, allow people (especially the wonderful people who take you places) to help. they want to help you, and DON'T see you are detaining them in other obligations. People just don't do this unless they want to. I already knew that you were pretty special, but hearing about the "family" around you who have taken you in, drive you around, and generally treat you better than my own blood relatives would ever treat me, makes you even more special. Please don't ever forget that, and NEVER feel like you are "detaining" anyone from their "obligations",just as when we heard about you here, we never thought anything but love for you and wishing you the very easiest transition at this very trying time.
Much love, Ellen
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