... opiates (oxycodone 30mg) for a couple years now. When we got together he seemed to have control over his addiction and recently it has been taking all of our money and time. Running from here to there to find him pills. There has even been a few times that he's lied to me about money, or where he was etc. He told me last night he wants to get off of them but I'm scared. We can not ask for support from our family because they don't know about it and when he withdrawls, he takes it out on me like its my fault. He becomes a completly different person and he's just so mean. I don't believe this is really going to be the changing point in his life but I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't know how to handle his addiction. I have no one I can talk to about it and I'm just sad, lost and lonely. If anyone understands or is going through what I am, please give me some kind of advice. All he seems to care about is his pills and I don't know what to do anymore. Please help