... struggling with memory loss, severe depression, hot flashes , falling out hair, etc the dr, said since I had dcis cancer prior to pregnancy and was 45 it would be a piece of cake and I was also menopausal age. He said I would avoid side effects of tamoxifen if cancer came back. He lied and betrayed me. My bones softened with lack of estrogen and with the physical job I had I have now been told to file for disability. No sex drive and I have decided that if any cancer comes back I will refuse all treatment