This is hard for me to talk about, but I don't know who to talk to anymore. I have talked to some of my close friends and they all say the same thing to leave him..but I can't.
I married my high school sweetheart, we have been together for 9 years, we have 3 boys. Before all of this happened he was my best friend and somewhere along we stop being that..
First he started going out a lot with his friends, staying out late, sleeping around with women! Then now the drug thing. I had no idea he was doing drugs, until his brother came to visit..he was the one who told me. I felt so bad that I didn't know, but then thinking back I remembered his mood swings. We were always fighting, he would pick a fight for no reason.. He is so different then before, he lies all the time!
It's so hard being strong for the both of us. I feel like I can't take it anymore! But I can't just give up on him, I love him too much!! I'm so lost...
Thank you Pattishan.
My husband is addicted to crystal meth, and its pretty bad. He does it everyday, he never sleeps. I just don't want to give up on him, but its just so hard..I feel like I don't even make a differences anymore. :(
Of course all addictions are rough on the wife and children, but crystal is especially rough. I really do think you will benefit from al-anon. It may take a couple of months for the things the support group teaches you to start taking effect, but, it will help. It is a great place to vent, and then listen to others about how they handled something similar. I hope you have some family who can help you with the kids, if they are teens, they also have ala-teen, so they can get support and see that others have survived this difficult situation.I know you are probably thinking what can I do to make my husband quit the crystal and unfortunately, he has to make that decision. I hope he will be on the same page with you soon.