... me so much. His money goes into my account because he knows he can't control himself. He has gone to rehab twice and was on suboxon but lost his health insurance he was doing great on suboxon. He went down hill when he lost his job and its been a terrible road. He still a grwat dad though he is the kids favorite. I just can't handle the pain of all thwe lies anymore. He recently took more money and I kicked him out. Its so hard because ei don't know what to do r kids are 3 and 1 1/2 and they r heartbroken not having him home. I know he wants to get better I just don't know if that's enough anymore I tried to help him but I'm to hurt now I'm a mess. What do I do from here I don't really have anyone to talk to
As for yourself & your piece of mind not to mention some people to talk to who are in similar or the same situation(and believe me there are alot more then think) you could go to ALANON. I know a great deal about addiction from personal experience not from books & I can tell you from what my mom & dad went through due to my & my brothers drug/alcohol problems there's not much you yourself can do besides take care of yourself & your kids because you don't want someone with a H problem because at least here in Wisconsin you wouldn't believe the number of accidents happening because of people nodding out in traffic(most have been stopped when they did luckily) but one person was killed when someone leaving the methadone clinic which is sad. But like I said I think you need to think about maybe going to ALANON & getting yourself right then try & help. But I'll tell ya as miserable as opiate withdrawal is some(alot)of people still choice getting high rather then getting right,then there's not much you can do until the person is just broken & finally figures it out that getting high then getting sick,over & over isn't working then they might be open to stopping. Suboxone is a good substitute & better then methadone because it's easier to come off so if he can get back on that it beats the hell of chasing a bag of "dope" but people cut it with all kinds of nasty stuff. Good luck & hope this might give you some insight on what I've seen.
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