My ex girlfriend and I started seeing each other on a normal basis back in January 2010 but before I start I need to express some important things. I'm a recovering addict and she is a current heroin addict. My friends warned me about how she uses people for their money due to her seductive ways but at the time I thought that they were just jealous because of her beautiful appearance. I fell in love with this girl and decided to support her habit because if i didn't she would complain of the withdrawal. We would have sex for days on end unprotected because she and I decided we wanted to have a family which made my feelings for her increase. She took a pregnancy test and the result was positive. A couple weeks later she decided to leave me and I don't understand why? She started seeing another dope addict and she is pregnant with my son and or daughter. I've been receiving calls from her off and on (maybe 2-3 times a week) and its usually about how shes gonna take me to court for child support and all this junk when shes the one that left me when I told her I was ready to step up. I received no apology for everything she put me through. I'm under the impression that once I started to slow down on giving her money for her fix, she took off and found a new guy to feed off of. I just don't know what to do because she calls and threatens me about various things and I've just been ignoring her calls for the past month. As bad as it hurts I need to stay away from this girl. I'm glad that I went through an experience like this while I'm still young and it just makes me want to stay as far away from that type of girl down the road. I really don't have anyone to talk to about my past relationship so if you guys could give me some advice on what I could do to make her keep some distance until out child is born.
WOW, tough one. I don't know about where you live but if she is still using during her pregnancy and the baby is born addicted children services could take the baby from her.I assume she is still using even though pregnant. I myself have never done herion. I have had my moments in my teen years but got it out of my system. Not going to sit here and preach to you about the dangers and all especially you being a recovering addict. But I'm sure you know it wasn't a healthy relationship and then her getting pregnant while using. You might want to concider trying for custody of the child. That is if your situation allows. I would be afraid if you paid her child support she would use it for drugs if she is that far into it. Has this pregnancy made any sort of change for her? If you want to know whats happening with your unborn child maybe you can think of a mutual dependable friend kinda like a mediator that can keep you informed. Geez I wish I has more advice I could give you... Hang in there!~Amy Lost in PA
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