She hears voices, is shakey, has anixity, sometimes appears to be regressed to a younger age, gets very comfussed and will just guess or not answer when asked simple questions. Some days she will follow you from room to room right on your heals and some days she wakes up and appears to be kinda~fairly o.k. She will rarly talk unless talked to first. She rarely smiles, can't drive and rarely uses a phone. She has stated she is afraid of being put on mental meds or in a mental hospital. Being she is 21 I'm told there is nothing I can do for her without her consent. How do I get her help if she's not in her right mind and refuses or is just too scared to get help?