He had the same thing with his ex-wife. He says its because of anxiety about satisfying me. I've never been more satisfied. How can I help? I don't know if I should talk about it or if that makes it worse? I am completely attracted to him and satisfied anytime he touches me... the man just does it for me. We've had sex when it doesn't happen but it's becoming more frequent and then he worries and it's a vicious cycle. I'm afraid he'll leave me and I would be devastated. Please help.
Relax and try to talk to him about this. Reassure him that you are being satisfied. Let him know particularly when in the act that you are content and fully involved. Stroking his ego is going to be real important to alleviating this problem. A person's mind and mental issues are very connected to their abiltiy to perform. Reassuring him and letting him know how much you care will help. Be very gentle but be straight forward with your feelings.
Good luck and remember honesty is the best policy,
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