Her kidney function is poor and only urine when she is having a coughing spasm. it is very hard to understand her when she talks. I believe she is sufficating. please help
Where is she? No one can answer that. Its obvious it won't be long, and what you can do is help her to be as comfortable as possible and let her know you're there. Talk to her, read to her. Her organs are failing, so that means its not going to be long.
I agree with kaismama... Call her doc and give them her symptoms. If it's worse you need to call the ambulance. But make her comfortable. Keep the lights dim so she doesn't have to squint or get headaches, read stories, tell her stories, watch her favorite movie or tv shows. If she can eat make her some of her fav food or desserts. Make these moments count!!! Or just sit there and hold her hand. She's going to want to know she will be ok to move on. She is more then likely scared.
Best of luck stay strong and talk to others to help you with your grieving process...
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