... when want to stop it ? I just came off of 6 month's withdrawal HELL! with effexer and still need something for my depression or anxiety. I refuse to go through the addiction and withdrawals from drugs that don't help me. Help! I am driving my husband nut along with myself. Mostly anxiety I am carrying a very very large cloud over my head!! Need a drug to help me but am fearful of going through withdrawls again if they do not work