I am a 37 yr old female and started all these in my early 20's. I ran out of xanax's this weekend and borrowed some of my friends klonopin but I was scared to death. I would like to know how to stop taking these. but I have extreme stress levels that include work and I'm just really moody lately. I also smoke pot when I get off work and have a couple glasses of wine. So its a lot of stuff thats masking something. i think im just so used to taking the meds and its my body thats wanting them, more than the actual moods???