Found brillo pads, baking soda, and I have noticed spoons missing... I don't know what to do, I am convinced he'll lie if I confront him. I threw the stuff away, I know he will know I know, but I just don't know how to handle it... we have been going to marriage counseling since a few weeks for other problems, now I feel it's all one big lie... I know I can't control him, but what do I do?