i found his "kit" I. The bathroom and confronted him about it. He told me he didn't think he was a big deal because he doesn't do it very often. I don't know if he is going to quit or not. He said that he would so we could be together. He is very hard to talk to about it, he gets very defensive and tells me not to worry. I have kicked him out of my house and told him he must be clean and find a job before he comes back. I just don't know what to do about it. I love him so much and I want to help him but I don't know how. He said he hasn't done it in 2 days and I believe him cuz he's been asleep the whole time. Any advice would help. Thanks.