How to help my husband with a cocaine/sex addiction problem?
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- 4 Apr 2010 by lostisland
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- 9 Apr 2010
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This has been going on for 8 years we tried to do a threesome 8 years ago I agreed me ny husband and a close guy friend. I thought it was just a phase I agreeded, something different after all we have been married 26 yrs but this has nevfer stopped for him..It is worse then ever.
i am so unhappy, I can not even go out with him anymore. Now he brings it home sometimes and begs me to have sex with him and this guy or even any guy. He has been a great husband works hard makes good money we have a nice home and a 11 yr old son... But this has got to stop now, I am now going to see a psyc doc in one week for some help/ideas. He is in trouble and so am I and the family. If this continues I have no choice but to leaves and that would kill him and our family... Help... Suggestions
Hi lostisland. If You would like to send me a private e-mail, I think I might be able to help. Maybe. I would like to try. I went through something similar back in the mid 90's, and it totally DESTROYED my marriage, so I just might be able to offer some good advice on the subject, so please, send an e-mail, if You really are truly serious about trying to save Your marriage. Look forward to hearing from You.
brent25
Brent25 is a great guy, very helpful to alot of people. If you ever need a womans perspective (I know exactly what you went through) please feel free to add me as a friend and I will add you too (if you don't mind?). You sound heart broken.
hi lost, through your entire story all you kept saying all the stuff you do for your husband.you even said at the end of your post it would kill him if try to put a stop to it.your being treated like a possession.does he not think that this is killing you? or does he live just to keep himself happy.cocaine and sex are just the symptoms of his problems.you can't keep up this charade and pretend that your feelings don't matter.god will bless u in your afterlife. but you are responsible for your present life.this man has no respect for you and will never have any until you respect yourself... u r in my prayers.
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lostisland, I've tried sending You my private e-mail address, and they're not letting it go through. So, if You go to my icon, here on this site, send a private mail there, I may be able to get it to You that way. I realize that this is a VERY sensitive subject, and You don't want to run the risk of everyone possibly seeing what You write, so if You still think there is a chance of saving this, or even want to, just try that, and we'll just go from there. Good luck to You both, and I'll be praying for the both of You.
brent