I myself am not biopolar but i just left my boyfriend because i found the relationship streesful and difficult to deal with. I felt like i was in a relationship by myself. Secrets played a big part also: I found out that he was in/out of hospitals and he takes geodon and dekapote and has been taking them since he was 15 we are both 34. Is it impossible or safe to have a relationship with someone who is a maniac depressive when your not?