I have had a strained relationship with my mom for years. It always felt like her life goal was to make me feel less then, she has gurdianship of my oldest daughter and I just started fighting my mom in court for my daughter. My mother has lied under oath and said some pretty nasty things. Its always been a lose lose situation. I recently talked to a thearapist and my doctor about the way she treats me and she said the way my mother behaves is clear symptoms of Borderline Personailty Disorder. I am scared for my daughter and her mental health because of my own damage. Does anyone have any tips for dealing with my mom and staying strong threw her bitter insults and intentions of helping me to fail to keep me under her thumb. Its really getting worse and I dont know how to compose myself!