I have been married for 8 years. We have 3 chilren under the age of 8. She has been in and out of rehab, inpatient and outpatient. She had a 2 to 3 year period when she was sober. She started using due to medical issues that caused pain. The pain went away but the drug usage opened a door that was shut for a while. In the last year it has been a rollercoster ride. If we did not have children i would have left a while ago. I am considering going to family court to have her removed. I am a little worried that once i get the courts involved that i can turn ugly fast. Help Wanted?