(Is there a difference?) i know she wants off them but im so lost i know nothing about it and i want help in any way we have lived together for 8mo. im so deeply in love with her and she dont think i will ever understand what its like to walk in her shoes i offer help of anykind i just feel like a failure because she dont trust me she trust her dealer and say he is trying to wing her off them slowly please help me save the woman i love thank you