I'm 13. Ive had my period for over a year now and I skipped my second one and since then my period have kinda been all over the place but they always happen by now. I got fingered about 4 months ago but I've had y period since then. I've never come in contact with a dick though not at all. I do masterbate could I like get myself pregnant? Please help! I've had sore nipple and this morning I woke up with a tummy ache but it went away within 5 mins!
Oh my! You dont know much about your body yet, huh? It is pretty normal not to be very regular when you first start your menses (periods) and sore breasts are often a part of PMS. Many women get constipated or diarrhea before their periods as well as bloating and cramping so tummy troubles are normal too. "Fingering" doesnt get you pregnant. It takes penetration by a penis and sperm to get you pregnant. Masturbation wont get you pregnant and masturbation is the safest way to relieve sexual tension at your age. If you have become intimate enough with a partner for "fingering" then it is only a matter of time before you become sexually active. Getting on the Pill can really help you out as it will regulate your period AND it will protect you from pregnancy once you decide to become sexually active. Take some advice from an older gal who has been there though-I lost my virginity young and losing your virginity before you are ready can really mess up your enjoyment of sex for the rest of your life! I wish now that I had waited for marriage and love before having sex but I felt like everyone else was already doing it and maybe there was something wrong because I wasnt. Well, I found out later that a lot of the girls I thought were having sex werent and even if they were, so what? That shouldnt have meant that I had to! Your virginity is a gift and you can choose to give that gift to some random boy or you can give it to your husband. Guys may not always say so, but it does bother them when they were not their wives first partner. Even guys who realize that many girls are sexually active before marriage, it bothers them after they are married and in love that some man has been there first, before them, with their wives. So be smart and wait to give this wonderful gift to your husband-to a man who has committed to a relationship and loves you enough to marry you! It is the best gift you can give because when you give it to some random boy you are dating, well, it is likely that he wont see it as the precious gift it is and you can only give this ONCE in your life! You have LOTS of time ahead of you in your life for sex. Dont be in too big a hurry to get into those mind games. It may make you popular for a while but once all his friends have had you, no man will want any kind of emotional relationship with you so be careful and selective if you decide to do this before getting married. I have grown up with brothers, almost all male cousins, many male friends and two sons of my own and I have heard a lot of men and boys talking when they didnt realize I was listening and I have heard they way they talk about women that are loose with themselves. It is not pretty! I have a "tutorial" about sex and birth control. If you want it, send me a private message and I will send it to you!
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